The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward
by Daniel H. Pink. This was indeed an interesting learning experience. I have previously read his bestsellers A Whole New Mind, Drive, and When. Daniel is truly a great writer.
For this book Daniel actually launched two research projects, The American Regret Project and The World Regret Survey that collected the regrets of more than 20,000 people from the US and around the world. Pink then categorized these regrets into four core areas—foundation, boldness, moral, and connection regrets—and in the process has shown us what a life well-lived looks like by comparison.
Daniel is certainly establishes why regret is so misunderstood. He writes how how we can learn to use regret to our advantage. In addition, he shares the most common regrets people have. Finally, he teaches us how to become productive when confronting regret.
So, should you regret saying “I have no regrets” to family, friends, and co-workers? Instead, Daniel begins the book with people from across the globe sharing their stories of getting a “no regrets” tattoo for everyone to see. Yet maybe we should think twice about that tattoo as he reveals the tattoo removal industry is a very lucrative profession since the removal costs as much as ten times more than getting inked in the first place.
However, Daniel also addresses issues we confront when we do not handle regret correctly. These misfirings can certainly end up contributing to poor decision making.